Tuesday, June 8, 2010

How to keep on steppin with a broken heart...

There is something refreshing about going through a break - up. One being it gives you a little reality check that you need to get in touch with you inner self again, and that, is good for all of us from time to time. This time of heart ache is a time to reconnect with friends that got lost in the shuffle, to show yourself that you are stronger than you think, and to learn how to love just yourself again. It's a time when we feel sad, angry, and happy, all within a short time of each other. A time when we search for bliss in other things and people. It's a good reminder that at the end of the day, for most of us, YOU are all you have.

Don't get me wrong, there are times (esp. now that 30 is quickly creeping up on me)when watching a movie at home is better with someone there, and when it's nice to roll over in the morning and find company (however one night stands can be good for this too :) ), to be able to call your best/friend lover and tell them everything and probably some of the stupidest things, and knowing that you have someone to hold your hand as you both step through the minutes of future together.

I've never been able to walk away from someone or lose someone that I have truely cared for and had feelings of hate. No matter how things end, I always hold people that i have loved/love in my heart for different reasons. I strongly believe that different people come into your life for a reason and that sometimes we are given pain to show us something that we were missing.

STEPS TO GETTING OVER A BREAK UP:
VODKA
RETAIL THERAPY
VODKA
GOOD LAUGHS WITH BEAVER FRIENDS
VOKDA

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

5 Steps To.....



1. Free your heart from hatred
2. Free your mind from worries
3. Live simply
4. Give more
5. Expect Less